I think that even shadows should not be alone.  God intended for us to be equally yoked.  I truly believe that means not only in our faith but in our ambition, work ethic, goals, dreams, and intelligence.  It is important in a relationship to have things that form a common bond yet it is also important to have differences in order to keep our individualities intact.  This careful balance is how men and women live together even though we are structured quite differently.  The fact that couples thrive with their differences yet have strong common goals and ideals is what makes this complex connection so intriguing.  Have you found your soul mate?